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Your ex wife doesn't have the right to stop child support......because it's not her money; instead the money belongs to your child. So, she does not have the authority to waive or authorize you to stop making payments going forward. This is also true for the past payments........she can't be untruthful about your payments, so if you have not paid all past support, she definitely shouldn't tell the judge that (and neither should you) because the judge can hold you in contempt or even charge you with perjury.
If you have proof that the past payments have been made -- cancelled checks, bank deposits, etc., then that's a different story.
But again, since the money belongs to the child -- and not the parents -- a parent generally can't waive child support.
The only possibility would be for you to file a motion and ask the court to stop the support order......but that would require you showing that the child doesn't need the support and you discontinuing payments will not impact the child negatively.
I'm not aware that this is possible, so I will opt out and allow someone else to assist from here.