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I am sorry to hear about this situation.
It sounds like you are the presumed father. If so, then a couple would still need a "release" from you to adopt, so that someone in your situation does not attempt to challenge the adoption later.
The putative father registry does not establish paternity per se. It is meant only to notify putative fathers in the event court proceedings for adoption or termination of paternal rights are even begun.
If someone in your situation does not want the child, then they can sign away the adoption and forget about the situation.
If someone in your situation does want the child, they would refuse the adoption papers, and would instead file for custody/visitation with the Court.
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