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Good morning. I certainly understand the situation and your concern. This is not necessarily a situation where you can demand and he or she has to tell you but if he is living with her and the kids, you can object to this and address it with the court. Seeing how they are dating, you can ask the Judge to ask that he not live there or stay overnight, when she has the children. You shared that you are recently divorced, so you can argue that it is not in the best interest of the children to have a stranger living with them and in their presence, since this is all very new to them and there can be confusion as to what is going on. Moreover, there is concern for the kids, if he uses drugs and has had his parental rights terminated, since you want to make sure the children are in no harm or danger, when he is present. You can see if there is anything in the public records which could tell you what happened but if not, you can bring this matter before the court.
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