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Illinois can't criminalize something that happens in another state, but since this isn't a criminal issue, but rather a civil matter, the IL courts would still retain jurisdiction over any alleged violation of their judicial order. So if ex could prove that you were cohabitating with someone in another state, that would give him grounds to file a motion in IL to terminate the support.
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