i also have ao other question.
he is saying his 401k was before our marriage
.therefore i am not in titeled to his.
but my 401k since i earned it while we were togther is half for him.
we been living together 20 years and married 15 years ago.
on 2008 he lost his buisiness and for good 5 years he did not make any money and i said to him
do not take money from your 401k since i make enough to pay the bills.
until he became 62 and then he got the check for 2200/mon.
still i payed more for the house bills than him.
in other word since 2008 i supported him that is why he has that much in his 401k.
so still do i have any right to his 401k.
and is it true that he has the right for half of my 401k.
knownig these are true numbers what is the fair distribuation ???
is the fair if i say your 401k is yours and my 401k is mine.
no alimony and we split the house.
thank you Fara