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Since your wife is an adult and has not been declared incompetent I am afraid there is not much you can do to force her to live with you. Unfortunately, I think it was a mistake to allow her to leave with her children. If she would have remained with you there would not have been much her children could have done to force her to leave and go with them. Absent being declared incompetent the law presumes that an adult has freedom of choice as to where there are residing. If you have a durable power of attorney or medical power of attorney perhaps you can attempt to control her finances in order to get her to return or coordinate with the children to be involved with her care and at least be consulted on a joint plan for dealing with her depression. As an absolute final result you could threaten divorce under an abandonment theory in order to try to get their attention and bring her back or at a minimum provide you current information as to her treatment plan.
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