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On what grounds are you seeking to stop the alimony? How long have you been married? What contact, if any, do you have with your spouse at this time?
The best option is to contact the courthouse where the initial filing took place and see if you can file a petition for divorce yourself. Most states permit you to file for a hearing seeking divorce after a set period of time has passed, and if the other party is refusing to move forward, you can choose to move forward yourself. As far as Pendente Lite, that won't go away until either you can show that the other spouse is more financially stable than you are (meaning she is not entitled to help) or you obtain a formal dissolution (divorce finalizes). Otherwise this order will remain against you and it is likely the reason why she hasn't pushed to finish the divorce--you haven't been married long enough where she would be entitled to long-term alimony once divorced.