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Yes, you still have a ground to take him to court with a motion for an order to show cause for contempt of court to force him to submit the QDRO and the court will order him to do so. If you go back to court and win on the contempt motion, the court will also order him to pay all of your court costs and legal fees associated with having to take him back to court. If he was ordered to do this, then the court will hold him liable, even though it has been 3 years. In fact, the fact you have been patient for this long shows your reasonableness prior to going to court, which works in your favor as well.