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Chris, I am sorry that you find yourself in this situation. I must be realistic with you even if you may not want to hear it. Get off the pot. Until it becomes legal, it is a controlled substance and the courts see the use of it as showing 'unfitness' on part of the parent, and therefore they see it as grounds to take away custody. You can file with the courts and seek a financial hardship exception but since this is an issue the courts did not create but it was your use, the courts would generally not help until you cover the costs yourself. Now, you may want to do a search in your area for men's groups that assist those with custodial matters and see if any of them can assist with low cost help, or can even subsidize your costs, but keep in mind that in your case a judge will likely not be very sympathetic if you are unable to perform this evaluation.
If you do not get it done within the timeframe the judge won't let you see the child. He will either state that you are not yet someone who proved his 'fitness', or you are in outright contempt of court if this was ordered by the judge. Neither is a good situation to be in. The former makes it harder to get custody going forward, and the latter pisses off the judge going forward so that the judge may be less willing to rule in your favor going forward. Both have to be avoided.