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The only way you can legally keep her out is to file a suit for divorce and together with that you need to file a motion for temporary possession of the house. Otherwise, without a court order, if it is the marital home and she is on the mortgage, she still has legal rights to enter the home. So, if you are done and you want her to not come into the home, it is time to get an attorney locally and file your divorce and temporary possession motion and temporary custody since she abandoned you and the children.
Thank you for your reply.She has NO CHOICE in a divorce, she does not have to sign anything. You file the divorce, you have her served with a process server and she has no choice. If she moves in you need to say nothing, get the divorce filed, have the process server come to the home and serve her the divorce and motion for temporary possession of the home and temporary custody of the children and she has nothing she can do or say except get out and leave the children.
Do not let her know what you are doing if she moves in, you file the divorce and have her served there so the process server does not have to go looking for her to serve her. She doesn't need to sign anything, once she is served the divorce proceeds. You need to really get to a local attorney now. Do not leave the home with the children, you stay and you file and serve her.
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Yes, that is the avenue you need to take if she is acting like this.
I have to tell you, we hear about people not having the money all the time, if you wait until she does something like takes off with the children, it will cost you 2-3 times what it will cost you to do it now.
Bipolar depression is not a defense in a divorce, that is nonsense.
You can get a restraining order at the same time you file the divorce if you prove those statements, which will keep her from coming around you or the children.