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If you want shared custody, then you must exercise as much parenting time as possible, so that you can show the court that the child's best interests supersede your own, regardless of the financial hardship it may cause you. This is the manner in which every family court judge considers custody/parenting matters. Failure to exercise the maximum amount of parenting time possible, is fatal to any custody dispute.
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