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In California, adultery is not even a ground for divorce......and there is no such thing as a lawsuit for alienation of affection under CA any longer.
Thus, the threat of her suing you or your girlfriend over the relationship is very unlikely.....and would likely be impossible to prevail if she did sue.
So, if you want to proceed, you'll just have to file again and go through the process.