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If you have been married for a short time, you may not be entitled to much, since under NY law you are entitled to only an equitable share of the property acquired during the marriage
and spousal support
is not generally given in such a short marriage and if it is it is not given for more than several months if your marriage was only for a little more than a year.
You can get a divorce without him signing. He does not need to sign. You need to go to legal aid and you need to talk to them and also the state bar and ask for the pro bono attorneys in your area who can help you with your divorce.
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