My name is XXXXX XXXXX X'X glad to help. Based on your question, it appears that your primary concern is what would happen to the assets and debts accrued by each of you from the time that you filed for divorce to the present. May I assume that is correct?
Assuming that is correct, I would first clarify that the length of a marriage for purposes of property division, spousal support, etc. is not based on the time since the wedding. It is based on the length of time between the date of the marriage and the date of separation. If a couple marries in 1980 and separates in 1987 but doesn't divorce until 2007 or 2057, the marital property and support issues are determined based on that span of time between 1980 and 1987 only.
So whether you want to file for divorce now, later, or not at all is up to you, but there would ordinarily be minimal or no concern about assets acquired after the date of separation. You will want to have an attorney examine your assets in person to determine exactly what may be owed based on the time that you were together, but there's no generally need to worry about dividing separate property earned after the date of separation.
Excuse me, I meant to say "there's generally no need to worry about dividing separate property earned after the date of separation.
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