My wife and I are getting a divorce
, she cheated and walked out of the family, kids and all, march 1st 2013. then in June, got let go of her p/t job for having an affair. and then took all of those savings and cashed them out so they would not be avail for splitting. I want 50/50 custody, and 50/50 child care for the kids, we both can afford this, but she moved in with some on April 1st 2013 . the kid she was seeing for some time, they both share the bills and she only has them in her name so that she cant claim he provides for that home. they are trying to starve me out of the home (rental) that the boys and I still live, in (their known home) and no I do not feel its proper for her to not pay her part for wanting to be a 50/50 parent. we both are in bankruptcy and I need her to be committed to pay her half. and then just be divorced. I would not need 1/2 of the money she took that is ours. If I can just get her to split the kids bills , 50/50. she now has put me into more debt, for not paying her 1/2 of child care and the bankruptcy. Just last week she started to pay back some of the bankruptcy, but none of the child care since school 8-8-2013. she pays for the health care, that would be part of the 50/50. she only pays that, the mediator states that I should pay child support
for having the kids 50% or more of the time by the price of $545.00 a month to her $130.00 per month, and then pay child care on top of that. to the tune of $170.00 to her for not paying her part, she has already given away her older son years ago, when she gave up on him, to her parents in P.A. before he was 18. if she pays half, I pay half, we both can get by and live our lives. and I would rather eat my lunch on the floor of the auto shop I work at, than any where in her house. People have seen this, and the sitter and I should not be the only ones feeding the kids, if she has them she should feed them also.. thank you, XXXXX XXXXX thing can be done. please let me know. I am at ends, about to loose my place to live, just to take care of my kids, is a oxy moron. since she has the money to pay her part. what she wanted was to go out and have fun. her way was to get rid of the kids, how to do this is, get rid of me. so I would have to watch the kids while she has fun. HELP.