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If he is agreeing to go to court, then you need to have the father sign for service of the support petition/complaint saying he received the copy of the complaint and summons and you need to file the proof of service with the clerk of court. This is necessary to prove he received notice of the suit and then it is up to him to answer the suit and he will have to go to court to prove his income so that the court can set the child support in accordance with the child support guidelines
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