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thanks for responding sir
Do they have a restraining order against you?
im really confuse and need your help to guide me what shoud i do on tht circumstances
no sir they dont as long as i know
Then what are they threatening to have you arrested for?
and i never abuse her i abuse her father for not helping me out but i never abuse her
i dont know they said we have already talk to the police and if you come nearer to our home youll be gone to jail for 8 to 12 months
So, you've assaulted her father, and he says that if you come around him, he will call the police for the assault?
yes i abuse her father in front of her that
OK. You should avoid her family at all costs. Do you know where she is?
not infront of her father i was before she left me
yes she is at hillcroft leaving with her entire family
her uncle is a doctors im all alone with student status over here
and dont know what to do
i beg them in front of the road to please forgive me of whAt ever i did
Legally, there is nothing you can do to force her to come back to you or bring the children. If you want guaranteed access to the children, you will have to file for divorce and get a custody order in place.
but they dont want it to listen and every one of them are threatning me tht we are doctor and we didnt wear a white court like that we wil put you behinds the bar
and make sure you can never see your kids and this and that
what are the chances of getting kids custody
and is it true tht i can only see my kids once in a week
sir i work hard for them day and night even i was in student status
There is a presumption that both parents should share custody. So, without knowing all about your personal situation, it is hard to say exactly what a judge would do, but most of the time the parents share custody.
i work for my kids
OK. Slow down and read my responses.
they say that they gonna show no income of mine and they become her legal guardian ad most probably as they are citizen they are going to get custody
The fact that they are citizens is not a consideration for the court. In other words, the judge cannot refuse to award you custody because you are not a citizen.
is that true but eventually i earn and i have proofs that i earn money i dont pay taxes as im not allowed to work but i earn
You are not legally required to have income to get custody of your children.
but they can say tht they were supporting me and i dont earn anything and im unable to take care of my kids
which is not true
legally yes i dont pAY taxes because of my student status but i earn
If you can show that you can provide for your children, keep food in the house, keep the electricity and water turned on, etc. your income will not be a problem.
can we prove tht with my bank statement cheques i get from customers or from something
sir what do you think we should be quite and wait for a response from them
or we should take any action i dont want it to give her a divorce for this small reason i said im sorry to her parents let me talk to my wife and i know if i talk to her shell b fi9
im sorry sir im just typing but im really in a bad situation and needing your help.\
please guide me what should i do can they make cases like that on me
I understand. Slow down and let me respond before you ask a question. It is important that you slow down and take your time and understand what I'm telling you.
No problem. I understand that you are very worried.
thanks sir God bless you for your help
please sir guide me what should i do why are they trying to put these cases on me
as i never abuse her
or hit her
If you want to see your children, you will have to file for divorce. As it stands now, there is no way to force her to allow you to see your children. The only way to make that happen is to get the court involved, and the only way to get the court involved is to file for divorce. When you file for divorce, the judge will put emergency custody orders in place that give you access to your children.
k and if i dont want it to give her a divorce than i have to wait
You will have to work it out on your own if you don't want to file for divorce.
and can they put me al tht false allegation now
You can't stop them from making a police report. The police will then investigate and hopefully see the truth.
and police will ask for evidence
if i ever did it
The police will investigate and look for evidence.
k as i never did that God knows
my kids the only way i can get them back is just by filing a divorce
thats the only ways
there is no other way
If you don't want to file for divorce, you will have to work it out on your own.
ok and do you suggest me to go at my kid school and see him
or that going to be a problem
You certainly can see your kids at school. You have the same rights related to them as your wife.
and wha about threatning im getting from them
so i can go at school and see him tomorrow there would be no legal issue involved
That would not be an issue.
i dont kow what she taught my kids uptill now
Again, slow down and let me answer your questions before you ask another.
k im sorry
You can go to school and see your children until a judge tells you that you can't.
As far as the threats to have you arrested, there isn't anything you can do about them calling the police. If they want to, they can. The investigation will take place and get to the truth.
ok but if i do tht they can get me in to the court
my case can be worse
If charges are filed, yes. However, charges won't be filed unless the police can prove what they are saying.
Ultimately, there isn't much you can do if they decide to call the police.
ok so sir what do you suggest please guide me how can i get both my kids and my wife back if you were me what would you do
As I've said several times, you will have to file for divorce and ask for joint custody. If you won't want to file for divorce, you will have to work things out with your wife on your own.
k but im not finding a way to talk to her and without talking to her how can i find a way
You can't legally force her to talk to you.
ok and sir about the case they are saying that we have already talk to the police and if you come over here we r going to get arrested is it true
as i didnt get any restraining order
They cannot just have you arrested. Only the police can make that decision. Without a restraining order, you are not legally prevented from going over there.
so sir i should wait and see what are the responses come from there but there is no way tht i can only see my kids once in a week for couple of hours right sir
i mean like what they are saying that they make me doing like that
Again, you cannot legally force her to do anything until you get a judge involved. You get the judge involved by filing for divorce. You can, however, go see them at school, or anywhere else you want.
k sir thanks a lot
thank you very much
Glad to help.
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ill definitely will sir how can i meet you sir and have you look my case more closely
You can't. We can't take clients from Just Answer.
any ways thanks sir but i wan to be in touch with you..
and let you know whats going on with me as im all alone by myself here and she has her whole family
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