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Rebecca,Thank you for your follow-up. Please allow me to provide you with the options here so you can make the best determination for yourself going forward.1. This order is still valid and still binding. Should you see the child and someone reports you, it would be contempt of court order and you could be pursued criminally by the state. Hence, it is a very serious and a very legitimate risk.2. If the only parties who would be there are your son, you, and your ex, then only they could potentially report you. If you trust them, then be aware that you are quite literally giving them the power to send you to jail if they decide to file against you.3. Physical contact is the only thing that is truly forbidden. There are compromises that could keep you from violating the order but give you contact. Perhaps you can pursue communication via Skype or other camera software if you wish to see one another--that, technically, may be 'contact', but not if that contact was initiated by the other party.4. It may simply be wiser to go to court and file a motion to set aside the 'no-contact' order first. Ask your ex to likewise NOT contest (which he would choose to not do), and then you could be in touch with your child without all these worries and concerns.Good luck.
Rebecca,You are most welcome. Glad that we concur on the fact that removing the order is the most prudent course.As for your plan with the site, that I cannot tell you as I am not a moderator. I can forward you to them so they can check for you. Otherwise, if satisfied, please do not forget to positively rate my answers to you so I can obtain credit for my work.Thank you!