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Since you have not placed him on the birth certificate, and assuming he has not signed an "acknowledgement of paternity", that means that he does not have presumptive paternity rights. In Texas, a presumptive father is someone who has signed an acknowledgement of paternity, or agreed to have a name on the certificate, or was married to the mother at the time of conception, etc... and certain legal rights are present there. Now he could still be named the father of the child, and would still need to be given notice of any custody action and notice that you were seeking to relocate.
The fact that you have not put this on the certificate certainly won't hurt your case. Rather, The Courts’ guiding legal principle in deciding who should be the custodial parent is the child’s “best interests.” What exactly is in the child’s best interest is not particularly well defined, but Texas Courts have provided guidance. What the Court Considers in Deciding Child Custody: The “Holley Factors”In one Texas divorce case, Nanci Holley v. XXXXX XXXXX, the court came up with a non-exclusive list of factors to look at in determining the best interests of the child. The Court found some pertinent factors in deciding what is in the best interests of children when parents are divorcing include:
Sometimes these factors are referred to “Holley” factors. Other factors which a Court will consider include:
The court is going to weigh all the factors and make a determination of whom would be the best custodial parent in the best interests of the child.
Now practically speaking, unless you have some serious skeletons in the closet, etc... then the judge is not going to remove an infant from the mother. Only if the other factors are so serious as to overrule the (unspoken) presumption that an infant belongs with the mother could that be a concern.
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I do not really see how that addresses my issue of relocation.I have no doubt that when the time comes I will be the custodial parent. Also anybody with access to google can find out the court works in "the best interest of the child." What I need to know is how this will affect my ability to relocate with my child.
It won't affect it any more than if he were on the birth certificate, if that's what you mean. Essentially these factors are considered in a relocation request (because if denied and you relocate anyway, custody would shift to the other parent).
So this is what is considered. These are the very factors that would be considered.
well what are the guidelines generally speaking for relocation
Now this is supposing that it's a contested matter.
I'm not sure that I understand your question. That is, the guidelines for an approval of a relocation request are going to be the same as a custody request. That is, the best interests of the child will be considered. Now in a relocation situation, this is going to include how "uprooting" the child will affect that child, where the child is moving to, ability for the other parent and any involved family members to have visitation, etc...
But again, the main consideration is the best interests of the child.
When there's a younger child, the "roots" are not "deep".
he's not 1 yet
In other words, that means that a 1 year old doesn't have friends, school, etc...
And so a court would be more willing to grant a relocation request in such a matter.
If the child was 15, had lived there his/her entire life, had friends, sports, school, activities, etc... then there would be significant "roots" and the court would be less likely to allow the relocation (if the other parent objected)
how does visitation work in such cases, would it be the custodial parents financial responsibility to get the child to visits?
Note that if there's no objection, then the court almost never denies a relocation.
oh there will be
As for visitation, that depends on the distance. If it's across the world, it might be 1 long term visitation per year (i.e. Summer). If it's in the continental US, there might be 2 or 3 shorter periods per year.
okay, this is helpful. at who
This depends. Generally it's shared, but that's largely up to the judge given the individual factors of the case.
Much of the time it's the "receiving parent" that pays (that is, you pay for the return portion of the trip, he pays for the trip to him)
But it's largely in the judge's discretion, and "ability to pay" is a large factor that is considered.
and if we got custody arranged before I knew if we would relocate it basically would not make a difference?
If you mean if you can come to an agreement with the other parent, or custody arrangement with the courts, that specifically includes the possibility of relocating, then it wouldn't make a difference one way or the other. But if you had the custody issues handled first, and then went to court asking for permission to relocate, that would be a different matter and would be handled either by agreement or by court judgment. So merely having an order saying that you have custody does not allow you to relocate. You need permission to do so, but if you have that permission in the first order, whether or not you actually relocate, then you wouldn't need to go to court again.
so in your best judgement, I should try to postpone any custody case until I have a better idea if relocating would be likely?
Yes, unless the father starts making waves about custody / visitation. You would want to get a lawyer to handle the matter, but you really only want to go to court once if possible.
okay thank you very much I think you have answered all my questions well.
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