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Thank you for your question. Please permit me to assist you with your concerns.This is a tough situation to be in. Let me respond to the first issue first. Generally speaking your spouse is NOT entitled to disability because disability payments are deemed to be separate property. While she can arguably demand a portion via alimony and spousal support depending on length of marriage, she cannot demand a portion of the actual benefits for herself. Those benefits were earned by you and are based on your payments and income, which means that other than filing separately on her own against your benefits, she wouldn't be entitled to more.The more difficult issue here is compelling her to agree with the divorce. That, generally, cannot be done by force. While you can compel or ask her, you cannot coerce or force her to agree. What you can potentially do is if she is refusing to sign off, you can go to court and request the right to file for a 'default divorce', which is a divorce granted when the other party is unable to be found or is refusing to sign off. For this option I would suggest retaining counsel as it makes the process somewhat more complex.Good luck.