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Can you tell me if you have any minor children?
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Since I have not heard back from you, I'll try to answer it to the best of my ability.
In Tennessee, there are two types of divorces: uncontested, which is usually irreconcilable differences, and contested, which requires proof of grounds for divorce.
With a contested divorce, that means the parties cannot agree and must go to trial. The grounds for a contested divorce are:
So if your wife cannot agree and would contest it, you would need to show one of those situations. If you don't have any minor children and cannot show any other grounds, you would need to live apart for 2 years. That's two years uninterrupted, not cummulative, so it would start running from the last time that you moved out.
It is absolutely possible to file without a lawyer, although it does become more difficult when she would contest it.
I would suggest going to the library and checking out a book on self representation, and you can also generally find the forms that you would need to file at the library (you should ask the librarian if they have access to any online legal form databases, which most libraries do). This would be the most cost efficient way of doing this.
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I'm sorry for the late response. Yes, we have a 7 year old daughter
I did not see a follow up question
That was it. Did you see my entire answer?
In that situation, you're probably going to need to have a court order of maintenance / support AND no reconciliation for 2 years. 2 years is still the magic number when there's no other reason to sue for divorce (as stated above). It just gets a bit more complicated because of the child custody and support issues, and if that's contested as well, that's going to be a complicated case.
Did you see the multiple paragraphs that I wrote before your response?
I did, thank you. What would be my next step? If I file for divorce and she agrees, court and lawyers won't be necessary?
Court is going to be necessary, but a formality, and only one party really needs be present. The judge would still need to sign off on it. But if she agrees, the 2 year waiting period does not need to be part of it. The forms can still be found at the library (or online). There are also lawyers that will prepare an uncontested divorce package for around $100-$200 (check the phonebook or do a Google search for your area and uncontested divorce). If she agrees, it's a relatively easy process.
Ok, wonderful. Thank you so much.
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I am sorry. I do not have any further questions at this moment but I feel I will later. I will be happy to rate this and will reply once i speak with my wife. thank you again
You can rate it now and if you have any further questions, you can ask any follow up questions afterwards without starting a new question.
There might be a slight delay depending on if I am in the office or assisting other customers or not.
will rating it end this conversation though?
For the time being, but it will switch to Q&A and you can ask follow up questions there as they arise (at any time... I've received follow up questions a year after a customer has rated it and I do my best to answer as soon as possible in those situations).
so I will not be charged another fee?
That's correct. Note that I can only answer follow up questions in the same scope as the original question, so if it's a question outside of the scope of that original question, you would need to ask a new question (which would incur a new fee). But if it's in the same scope, then no additional fee would be needed.
ok wonderful. will submitting my rating close this conversation?
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how will i be able to open it and ask further questions
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(for the time being, that is?)
ok! thank you. I'm sure we will be talking again soon.
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i will rate now...excellent service. Thank you again!
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