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I'm sorry to hear about your situation. Any legal action will need to be filed in Texas (where the baby is to be delivered). Even though she cannot be presently found, because you know the city (and thus county) where she resides, you can still sue for a paternity action in that county. After filing that paternity petition, you can seek subpoenas for the sister, to be delivered through the employer.
In short, as part of a lawsuit (a paternity action is a lawsuit), the court can authorize service of process through alternative means if there's good reason to believe that the defendant (the mother) is present in the jurisdictional boundaries of the county.
And it can issue subpoenas to find out more information about that.
But it would need to be in the county where the mother (and the baby) will be residing at the time of the baby's birth.
That being said, you need to contact an attorney in that county that deals with paternity cases. Go to www.lawyers.com or www.legalmatch.com to find an attorney in the area. You should be able to find one that will give you a free initial consultation and better advise you of your rights, any problems with your case, likelihood of success, how courts are treating cases such as yours in the area, and what you should do next.
Is there anything we should do now before the baby is born? I understand from the Texas Attorney General's website that there is some form one can file to be kept informed of any court proceedings (or something to that effect)
That would be the paternity registry. You can find the forms here: http://www.dshs.state.tx.us/vs/patreg/
Is there a benefit to filing that form even if we don't know her social security number and address?
Yes. Basically if someone else tries to adopt the child, or there's some effort to terminate his rights, it will show that he would make a claim and oppose that.
Include what you can, and what's unknown indicate it as unknown.
The AG website encourages people to come into their office. We will be in Lubbock (where she is residing and where the baby will be born), is there an office there we can visit?
Here's a list of the field offices: https://www.oag.state.tx.us/cs/fieldoffices.php. It's from the child support part of the website, but that would likely be the place that you would file this form if you were to do so in person.
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One other question, is there anything we need to file with New Mexico since the child was conceived there, my son lives there, and the only solid address we have for her is her parent's which is in NM?
No. It's the location of the baby that matters in these types of filings. Only if the child could not be found (or the mother in the situation of an unborn child, as is the case here) would NM be a place to file such an action, and only until it could be ascertained where the mother / child is located.
Ok, thank you!
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