We have a custody agreement. 50/50 codomiciliary. 2 weeks with me 2 weeks with her. I pay her $250 a month child support. The boys lived with me from the age of 1-5. At 5 I sent them to live with her because she lives in a better school district. The verbal agreement was they would stay with her until I moved to a better district. When I did she wouldn't let them come live with me because they had been with her for 3 years or so. Then I moved overseas to work so I could save for their college educations. They are now 14 and in 9th grade.
I want the one son that wants to live with me to live with me. The one that doesn't want to live with me can stay with his mom. I'd like to continue working overseas for 3 more years and want him to come with me once I change locations. If I come home and work I want him to live with me and my wife there.
Can he and I go to an attorney and peition the court for him to live with me and to alter the custody agreement?
I don't know which way to go with this. My child support is so low that I think it would cost me more in legal fees than the next 4 years of child support. That isn't really the issue. I just want my sons with me. At least the one that wants to be with me.
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