Thank you for your question. Please permit me to assist you with your concerns.There is absolutely a way you can get a guardianship over her if she is willing to allow it. Consider filing in court in the county where your mother resides for 'conservatorship'. This will grant you the right to make legal and health-based decisions on her behalf. Under US law the presumption is that any adult is competent and able to make decisions. The courts can transfer that right over to someone else, such as yourself, who would then be able to compel this move should your mother end up changing her mind again. This is never an easy decision and it never a decision that doesn't have stress associated with it, but it may be the most ideal decision for you and your mother to consider.Good luck.
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