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The question you are asking I hope is more rhetorical, since we cannot get into your attorney's mind to know why she is doing anything she is doing. We can tell you that the Rules of Professional Conduct in MI require an attorney to reasonably communicate with clients and if she is not responding and answering your questions, she is likely in violation of this Rule of Professional Conduct and is grounds for a complaint to the MI Bar for her refusal to communicate with you. Furthermore, if an attorney is not responsive to your needs, it is grounds to terminate their services and seek to pursue them for a refund based on their refusal to communicate with you and take proper actions to protect you on the divorce. It is also time to get a new attorney when your attorney is not reasonably responsive to your needs and providing you the answers you seek.
You need to start by scheduling an actual appointment with her in person and address the letters you sent to her and explain that she is failing to reasonably communicate with you and you would like answers about the divorce you are seeking as the Rules of Professional Conduct require her to do. If she still will not answer, then it would be time for you to file a bar complaint against her and seek out a new attorney and consider pursuing her for a refund of fees she has not earned from working on your case.
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