1. A Child Custody Agreement or Order is always modifiable.
2. If you wish to travel during the summer where it will conflict with his schedule it will need to be in the Agreement otherwise it would have to be modified later. A judge does not have to allow a modification.
3. Child Support is paid by the non custodial parent to the primary custodial parent. If Husband becomes the primary custodial parent then you would have to pay him.
4. All changes in income are supposed to be reported to domestic relations.
5. If you voluntarily decrease your income, husband can argue that you should be given an earning capacity based upon your previous higher salary. You have to have a reason, other than lowering child support, as to why you are changing jobs. The same rule applies to your husband.
6. Legal Custody is the right to make health care, religious, school, etc. decision regarding children. Physical custody is the schedule of who has the children when. Yes each parent has a say in decisions. I think you should have a provision that would limit informing the other parent about major medical decisions, not every cold or physical. Joint Legal Custody is pretty standard. You have to have interfered in the past with medical, religious or school decisions to not have this provision.
7. Yes it is typical to have to have contact information for each other.
8. Yes based on how you are describing the proposed agreement it would requiring agreeing on extracurricular activities. General court will allow prior activities a child was enrolled in before.
I hope this is helpful. Good Luck.
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