My question is concerning Temporary Orders
, which my attorney is telling me the judge has signed off on. However, I do not have a copy in hand to show the agreements and terms for a peace officer to legally enforce. I have been designated the sole and exclusive right to determine her residence and collect child support
. Her father has been granted frequent but limited visitation
time due to our child being under the age of 3 yrs. (21 months old). She has resided with me since birth and i have been her primary caretaker
. I tried to pick her up after one of his visitations and have been denied in doing so. He has his family supporting him and restricting me contact with her. I informed him that he could be found in contempt of court due to violating the order. He is telling me that he has been instructed this is okay per his lawyer. He is claiming that since I verbally attacked him in front of our daughter that her life is in danger and I am an unfit mother
. I am not perfect, however I have never physically, verbally abused my child. I have never neglected her or put her in harm. When he is present to spend time with her I do become frustrated for the fact of his careless actions that do present a hazardous situation to her. He will leave unappropiate dangers within our daughter's reach (his medications, his tools, parts to his computer, unlocked baby gates, etc.) I am obssessive compulsive about baby proofing. I have witnesses other than family that can vouch for me. I have bit my tongue several times for sake of peace. I just watch more cautiously and correct the problems behind him. I admit letting my emotions getting the better of me last time he was in my home and I did yell at him. He recorded this incident and is now trying to use it against me and have our orders changed. I have tried reasoning with him, i've tried civil standby, but without temporary order with judges signature, no success. Can he have lose my sole exclusive right as the custodial parent
, and accuse me of being an unfit mother? I thought there was a process through the courts to do so? Any Advice?