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Q: I'm in MI, I would like to file for legal separation. I want to do this due to the fact that I need medical insurance for an existing mental condition and because I'm Roman Catholic which does not allow divorce. Would a separation be granted in such a case?
A: Yes, the two reasons that you mentioned are the two primary reasons that people seek legal separations (i.e., to retain a spouse's benefits, and because of religious reasons).
Q: Is there any way to have the marriage annulled? And if so, what are the consequences for me and my children?
A: No, unfortunately that would not likely be allowed in your case (though please note that I'm making an assumption, as you'll see). An annulment is allowed when the marriage is invalid for some reason. For example, if you married your husband while you were underage, then the marriage is technically invalid. You could get an annulment. Another example would be if the person performing the marriage was not authorized. As you can see, annulments are generally allowed when there is some legal deficiency in the marriage.
Q: What if I claim that I got married for a green card? Do I keep my kids or do I get deported and they stay here?
A: If there was evidence to support that claim, then an annulment may be possible since the marriage would have been a fraud. On the other hand, the fact that you've stayed together for 10 years and have children seems to refute that claim. But assuming that you did successfully show the marriage was a fraud and you were deported, your children would almost certainly stay here. They are American citizens, and this is their home. A judge would likely find that it would be in the children's best interests not to disrupt their lives as would occur if they were to move out of the country.
Q: Should I rather remain here? If so will I have dual custody in case of separation? My husband keeps threatening to take my kids away because I see a psychiatrist for anxiety and depression and he says they don't give kids to crazy people. Can he do this? Yes I see a psychiatrist but my medication has my anxiety under control!!
A: Based on what you wrote, it sounds like you're the primary caregiver. If so (and assuming that your children are still relatively young -- i.e., not teenagers), then you would almost certainly have primary physical custody. The fact that you see a psychiatrist and have anxiety and depression would not likely be enough to deprive your children of their mother
and primary caregiver. The main issue is what would be best for your children, and unless you're considered an unfit parent (which is unlikely, unless you are abusive or neglectful), then I don't see the judge taking the kids away. If anything, the fact that you see a psychiatrist shows that you are serious about making yourself well so that the anxiety and depression do not control your life.
Q: My husband is on the CPS central registry for abuse and intent to abuse. Because of this can I be legal guardian?
A: That certainly works in your favor in a custody dispute. It seems unlikely that your husband would be granted primary custody, and depending on the circumstances of the abuse, a judge may not grant him more than supervised visitation
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