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I am sorry that your children are being used by your husband in this way.
Please note that the court will always rule in what it feels is the best interest of the children.
Therefore, I suggest that you are going to have to use this information about the Father in a way to show the court it is not in the best interest of the children to share custody.
Keep in mind, that it is very hard to win sole custody of children if the parent is not a danger to them.
But if you want to try to get the sole custody, you will need to show the court how the father's behavior is not in the best interest and that you have a solid, stable and loving home environment
I suggest you also have a visitation schedule for the Father to show the court that you are not trying to preclude a bonding, but being back and forth among parents is not the best interest.