(i) the parent has abandoned, neglected, or otherwise exhibited disregard for the child's well-being to the extent that the child will be harmed by living with the parent;
(ii) placement of the child with the individual takes priority over preserving the day-to-day parent-child relationship because of the presence of physical or emotional danger to the child, or both; or
(iii) other extraordinary circumstances;
The “interested third party” must also prove by a preponderance of the evidence that it is in the best interests of the child to be in the custody of the interested third party.
There are no standard forms for third party custody so you would probably have to hire a lawyer to get this accomplished.
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