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Did you agree to change jurisdiction to washington state
I agreed to allow them to move there... does that constitute agreement to change of jurisdiction?
No it does not
do you continue to reside in California?
Interesting.. she's filed her petition for exctension based on WA state law
Would fighting it be a waste of time/money?
Based upon your information jurisdiction remains in California. The fact that the children are now residing in Washington State does not affect jurisdiction provided at least one party remains residing in California
Since you continue to reside in California, Washington State does not have jurisdiction
Ok... must I allow her access to my financial information?
Not in Washington State
So that means she can't look at my tax returns and income?
You would need to object to her Washington State pleading based upon the fact that jurisdiction remains in California and Washington State does not have jurisdiction
You should prevail
However unfortunately you will need to retain counsel in Washington State for the limited purpose of objecting to jurisdiction
We had an agreement established in mediation and ok'd by the state of California can I rely on that agreement to stick?
The purpose of the law is to prevent forum shopping – In other words to prevent a parent from moving to a different state to take advantage of the different states laws
Child support is subject to modification – but that modification hearing must be by the California court
We need a Washington state lawyer then?
Just for the limited purpose of objecting to jurisdiction
Typically this is an inexpensive legal matter
So can she file from where she is in the courts in my state?
How successful are these cases typically?
And the matter would be determined according to California law – not Washington State law
100 percent in her favor.. or mine?
Washington State cannot have jurisdiction since the california court decided the case and you continue to reside in California
Can she gain access to my financial information through any means? Ie. filing in the state here
Can she file for retroactive money if my income has risen since the original agreement?
No – only from the date that she files for modification in California
So my life isn't over..? :)
I hope not :-)
LOL.. this is very comforting.. from what you can see what am I likely faced with here.. ?
I was just served today.. I'm very rattled
Well – what can occur in California is really a different question. Site rules require new questions to be posted on new pages. However briefly, child support may be modified if there is a change in income of either parent. If she petitions the California Court for modification, child-support will be modified based upon your current income
She is currently cohabitating with another man and has given birth to two of his children out of wedlock.. does that have any bearing?
That would have a bearing on spousal support but not on child support
Ok... So worse case scenario I might pay a little more for the remaining child based on current income.. and I probably wont have to extend child support for college based on my California jurisdiction? I have one daughter that just turned 18 and is out of highschool and on that has one more year to go...
That is correct
And .. finally ... you have a high level of confidence about this assessment..? (Please hold my hand!)
Polygamy is illegal otherwise I'd marry you too! (my current wife has a good snse of humor!)
A sense of humor is important :-)
Have I answered your question
Lol... You've been VERY helpful! Thanks so much! I can't think of anything else to ask... any final advice?
Consider meeting with the lawyer in your area. A local attorney can assist you in putting your books and records in order in preparation of the eventuality that she will file in California
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