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The court may modify such an agreement if they find a significant change in circumstances have occurred since the issuance of the original agreement/order and such change is in the best interest of the child
. The fact she agreed to this schedule initially will be held against her and her retirement from the military is not a significant change in circumstances generally to incline a court to make such a change. Because of your particular schedule, the order was set this way to accommodate that schedule and this is in your favor in that your time off is dictated by the school year.
To attack her motion, you must argue and show that there have been no significant changes in circumstances that would warrant a change in the visitation order. You would also argue that your schedule is fixed and not flexible based on your job and is dictated by the school year.
Judges may change their orders, but if she stipulated and/or agreed to this schedule and then the court entered it as an order, generally the courts review agreements between the parties as contractual agreements where both parties have agreed and signed and are thus bound by their agreements unless there is some circumstance that makes it in the best interests of the child (not her) to change the agreement/order.
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