Stip. Said, only " joint custody " , " joint decision making". She lived with me until last June. I have physical coustody and father had visitation
, but I told her that " I can not live with her unless she change her behayvior . She lives with her father or her friends ( last few years, I can not control her because child and father lied where she is sleeping. I called police few times ). I have not seen her since last summer.
I want to know if I can go to court and asking full custody because I want her to have serious intensive therapy. But with joint custdy, father always interfere. I order to get me full custody, I first has to make "contempt " of court order.
I need to know what to list and how to list on petition. I will list what invents.
1. Child'(17yrs.)Facebook said, " was out of life of prostitution ". When emailed father asking about this, no response.
2. Father neglect child's welfare eat meal at home, supervising cell phone usage ( she has section, can not go to sleep that caused her refusing to go to school, called police ), giving her money, she started eating out junk food that caused bad self image, she stick hands and vormit, taking laxative, diet pills.
3. Father gave permission to stay out late with money. I had to call police to find her.
4. Father gave permission to live with friend's apt. Without adult supervision. I had to call police to find her. Even to police, father did not give her address.
5. 2009 child was brought to emergency room. She had migraine, her right eye was blowy, she vormitted because excessive usage of compute when she was in father's care. She was left alone with computer.
6. Last Sumer, child and I had an written agreement that she is going to intensive therapudic camp for 30 days, but father did not bring her back, and he enrolled another ballet camp.
7. Father gave child permission to say in his office anytime she wants instead of sending her to school. Her school record shows 24 absents.
8. 2010, father pretended that she was missing for 4 days while I was in Chicago. He did not pick up my calls after I sent her to his place by car car service. When i was in the way back in Chicago Air port, he asked me what car service I used, what driver looked like, what time.... And said, police is waiting in my house. He suggested me that she was already dead.
9. He did not talk to me regarding college education, she dropped out ballet school ( she had beed profecional ballet school and semi profecional ballet school For since she was 2 years old ).
10. Father did not inform me that child had injury that caused withdraw ballet school.
11. Father arranged sleep over friends house for last few years. Child started smoking. She was diagnosed asthma or bronchaitice, but he never stopped allow her to sleep over friend's hosuse. I had to call police to find her.
12. Father keep giving cell, iPhone after I asked not to give her because her usage of cell became diction, she could not go to sleep that caused refusing to go to school. I took devises few times, she keep getting from father. He never deplane her.
These are few out of many invents. How can I make petition for contempt?