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If they are keeping her children from her for something that allegedly happened 3 years prior, this is certainly not proof that she currently is not a fit mother. It would be of courts up to your great granddaughter to put together witnesses to testify on her behalf that she does not party like the pictures depict and she certainly does not currently party like that.
Furthermore, while seeing someone and getting pregnant prior to divorce may be grounds for claiming adultery, it certainly does not prove that she is not a fit parent. Again, it seems like her attorney has failed to present sufficient evidence and witnesses to testify regarding her current behavior since she has had the children and how she is a fit mother.
These cases are all about the evidence each side puts up and they are less about the law than any legal case you will deal with. These are all about convincing a judge with witnesses and evidence which parent's custody is in the best interests of the child and not the parent fighting for the custody.
I do suggest that you might want to help her change attorneys if this attorney she has is not aggressive with this case because this type of case needs a very aggressive attorney and one who will put on every witness they can to prove their client is fit and also one who is willing to attack the other side's witnesses.
I am sorry to state that unless she gets a more aggressive attorney and some more witnesses together to testify to disprove the allegations of the other side, all the court has to go on would be facts presented to them and if there are no witnesses or testimony to counter the other evidence the judge's hands are tied. Furthermore, her attorney needs to be objecting to the claims about her conduct from 3 years ago as not even being relevant because it is not timely.
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