My son gets visitation 1 week day and every other weekend. She has three children by three dads and actually not sure he the last one is. She is not with any of the dads and has never worked. My son has been having a hard time with her if he dont do what she wants she holds him from the son. This has all just started since she is mad at us for some reason
no charges yet she is emotionally blackmailing us. She did not give him Tyler sat for his t-ball game and was not at the house she stays at or the other place they said she was. I would have him wed and sun for church and 1-2 other days. and my son would have him thur and every other weekend when she is not mad at him.. She got upset because Tyler always wants to be at our house so two weeks befor this issue she was trying to keep him from us. She said we are trying to take him. She has never worked a day in her life and we all have jobs we are not trying to take him. She is just saying if i go anywere he is she will file charges but i have not done anything to him and she even text she knew i did not. She is just hurting the child
Yes my son is suppose to get him thur and every other weekend but when shes mad or if he want give her what she wants she wont let him have him. She gets support from him but she wants him to give her cash when she needs something for him but if he just wants to buy the item he needs she throws a fit. She has always let me have him until a few weeks ago when she got mad at me for I dont know what, so she knew he got in the tub with me so she decided to hold this over my head its a power trip. She is saying I cant watch him play tball but Im one of the coaches. And I teach childrens church on wed so I have to go there but she saying if Im I go around him she will fill a charge against me
She ask tyler if he had had a bath and he said yea I bathed with maws even though she knew I bathed him since he was born she decided this was her weapond. She texted me to back of and go away that i was trying to take her kid but if I dont back off she would file a restraining order against me. That she dont want tyler around my drama or lies but shes the one whos a liar and lately tylers old enough to know this. She said she talked to a officer and he told her to file indencency to a child. My husband contacted her because she told me not to text her back and told her if she was uncomfortable with anything all she had to do was say something that it would never happen again all she had to do is say so. She text him back oh I know she would never do anything but she still would not let him go to church or be around. its just emotional blackmail. She is on a power trip. She thinks we wont to take him but thats not true. She dont even know who the 3rd babys daddy is she has moved them about 7-10 times and has problems getting them to school if If I wanted to do something I would have. Ive lived in the same house 14 years and had the same job 26 years. Im very stable and she is not the kids are getting older and they tell us things shes doing and thats why she is paniced. I wasnt going to say he never jumped in the tub when I was getting out because I wouldnt lie. Hes my grandchild I did not see anything wrong with it I dont think like that
She was living with who we thought was the last babys daddy and she would let tyler sleep with her and joe since she first meet him. She pulled alot of crap on that poor guy Joe and he finally got a dna and found out he was not the dad so he is not in the picture. She has been taking tyler around another man named matt and I think she is pulling this because she is worried tyler is going to tell us stuff. He is getting older and he loves us and I think shes jeoulous of how close he is to us. Joes mother had contacted me and she was also mad because I spoke with her. She treatened me then she would keep him from me but it blew over I thought.
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I will no longer let my grandchild even be in my room or bathroom when Im in there. I just know the mother knows I would never touch or harm him and I understand if she feels its not ok then just say something to me. This is just not the real issue she has other issues. So she wants to use it to blackmail me. She has been threatning me with filing charges and thats why I wanted to know if bathing with him was illegal because she would be a liar if she states anything else
I was just making sure because she is telling my son that she is going to not let him go to his tball game and I believe she is a little crazy and has threated me if i show up at the game she will have the cops there. She said she will file charges on me and fix me real quick.
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