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Thanks for choosing Justanswer.com! I look forward to helping you today. What state are you in? Why do the two of you want to wait until after the divorce to do this? Do you mean that you want to say how it is going to be divided in theory in the paperwork but just wait to actually divide it until after the divorce is final?
Hello, thank you for answering. We are in NC. It has been taking me awhile to get all of our settlement issues together to be able to come to an agreement, so I want to go ahead and get divorced and then finish settling our distribution. We have talked about the distribution in general terms but with nothing concrete in writing yet.
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Thank you for that information. How do I go about filing for the petition for divorce. Where do I get that form and or what else is involved in doing that? Then how do I file a motion, affidavit and order to bifurcate? Is there a form for that and what else is involved in that? We are trying to handle the distribution of our assets ourselves, if possible, without having to hire attorney's or go to court. Neither one of us can really afford to do that so I'm hoping we can work it out. There are no children involved and no business worth so it's mainly our house. So do we still need to file a motion to bifurcate or can I just draw up our own document that we both agree to settle out our distribution together at a later date? If so, if we changed our mind and couldn't work it out between us, and we had to go to court after all, how would that effect the divorce or the distribution? Thank you.
You can find the forms for a pro se, uncontested divorce here: http://www.nccourts.org/county/durham/courts/family/prosedivorce.asp
With regard to the motion, affidavit and order for bifurcation, NC does not provide those. That is something you would have to draw up yourself and submit if you do not want to hire an attorney. You can see what one from Alaska looks like here: http://courts.alaska.gov/shc/shc-153n.pdf. This is in regard to child support issues though and you guys are going to want to do one in regard to property division, but at least you can see the structure of what one might look like. You have to ask the court to bifurcate the property division issue if it is going to be able to grant you a divorce without deciding that issue. There is just no way around it. Basically, what it is saying is that you will decide on the issues later, but that if you cannot, you may need a trial on them. So no, you are not giving up any rights by bifurcation. You always have the option for a trial if you can't work out the division between the two of you.
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