No his ex wont let him have anything to do with the child, she just says pay the child support and then maybe you might be able to have something to do with her.
There is no regular contact,nor visitation. I think really he wants to know if the child is really his or not and the child's mother wont submit a paternity test willingly to prove anything. We haven't gone through the courts or anything yet but he has child support that hasn't been paid on due to this factor.
This is why I am seeking answers
Yes the child support was ordered and I believe its active but I'm not sure as far as being enforced against him.
I would have to guess that if it was ordered and as far as I know he has never paid anything on it. His theory is that until the paternity has been established he doesn't want to pay child support. I know this logic may not be appropriate, but i do understand why he feels this way.
so even if he ends up to not be the father, he is still stuck with child support?
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