If she is mature and understands the nature of her requests now and has legitimate activities, then this begins NOW and if he cannot understand her presenting these activities to him as grounds for rearranging the scheduled visitations, then you need to send him a letter quoting that paragraph above and telling him that this is exactly what the court meant and if you have to go back to file in court based on him being unreasonable, then he will be paying for more attorney's fees for you filing an order to show cause for contempt of court.
The courts expect reasonableness and if you can show the court her text messages and emails explaining he reasons to him together with you informing him of the clause in the order, the court is not going to be overly happy with his conduct and it will hit him again with attorney's fees.
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