No, I'm not marrried. NO, Im not currently getting child support and the father is in the state of Utah
Here is the place to start if you are going to try to do this yourself.
click on your county on the lower right for the times the self help center is open at your local court. Here is a link to a publication that you can print out for reference that explains the procedure in full detail. You need to print it out and spend a fair amount of time studying the procedure.
However, since he is out of state you really need the assistance of an attorney. Here is a referral site
You will have to have him personally served in the other state. Normally you would use a process server in the town where he lives so you can get a certificate of service to file with the court
You can get the child support started by contacting child support services at
That is probably the best place to start and it will usually get your support started quicker.
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