Hello again, Sophia, and thank you for the additional information. OK, that is very recent, so you could seek to have her return to you if you choose that option.
That makes more sense--that he is seeking a modification of the custody order and support from you since your daughter is now living with him. I certainly understand your frustration with your daughter not abiding by your rules and disrespecting you.
Now that she is living with her father though, he would typically be entitled to a modification of the custody order and support, if support is indicated under the state child support guidelines
Here is a link that permits you to estimate the amount of support that you would be ordered to pay based on the guidelines:
Unlike some states that terminate child support at the age of 18, under NY law, child support stops when a child reaches the age of 21 or earlier if the child becomes emancipated. In New York, a child becomes emancipated when he or she marries, joins the armed services, lives on his or her own and is working fulltime. The non-custodial parent must apply for the termination of child support upon the emancipation
of the child.
Here is a link that summarizes the law on these issues for you:
Therefore, the father would normally be entitled to support from you I'm afraid, unless you contest the modification and seek to retain primary custody of your daughter. If you wish to challenge his motion to modify the order of custody/support, it would be best to retain a local family law
attorney to represent you in this matter.
I hope this helps clarify the situation for you.
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