the children r currently living in ga. they were married twice. the original divorce decree was in fl. she left fl with a man and moved to ga with no job to be close to family. the second divorce decree was in ga. and now she plans on going back to fl with no family and to be with a man and no job.
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how does he prove its not in the children's best interests. does instability with men have any bearing in his behalf?
My son is at work right now. i will get back to u as soon as i talk to him. cordially-Dianne.
TRULY SORRY TO BOTHER U ONCE AGAIN. WHAT I FORGOT TO ADD--IS WE HAVE BEE THROUGH LAWYERS TWICE BEFORE HERE IN GA! SORRY--BUT WITH NO DISRESPECT--THE LAST ONE SCREWED US ROYALLY AND COST US A FORTUNE! I WAS ABLE TO GET OUT OF THE XTRA COSTS HE CHARGED--CAUSED I DID ONE HELL OF ALOT OF RESEARCH--AND HE DID NOT FOLLOW THE LAW! THE LAWYER HE HIRED--TO SUE MY SON--FOR THE XTRA MONEY HE ALLEGEDLY OWED--TOLD HIM--AFTER MY LETTER-TO DROPIT OR WE COULD SUE HIM!!
NOW FOR THE REAL TRUTH! HIS EX WIFE'S MOTHER HAS MONEY AND CONNECTIONS IN HER RICH TOWN N GA! SHE BELONGS TO A SOCIETY THAT ALSO HAS MONEY! THAT IS HOW SHE HIRED A ATTORNEY FOR HER DAUGHTER-TWICE IN GA AGAINST MY SON!! PROBLEM IS-SMALL COMMUNITY-RICH-AND EVERYONE KNOWS EVERYONE!! THE LAWYER SHE HIRED IS 70--BEEN WORKING FOR OVER 50+ YEARS-AND HIS WIFE IS MY SON'S EX'S MOTHER'S BEST FRIEND. THE WORST PART--IS THE JUDGE WHO HANDLED THE CASE IS BEST FRIENDS WITH THEIR LAWYER!!
SO NOT ONLY DID WE HAVE TO PAY FOR HIS LAWYER-AND GETTING ROYALLY SCREWD-WE HAD TO PAY FOR HER LAWYER-PLUS THE $7500 TO GET HIM OUT OF JAIL!
NOW U WANT US TO HIREANOTHER LAWYER TO GO BACK IN FRONT OF THE SAME JUDGE WITH THEIR SAME LAWYER-IMPOSSIBLE. I TRIED TO CHANGE THE VENUE BECAUSE OF BIAS--BUT WAS UNABLE TO. I WAS ABLE TO GO TO LAW SCHOOL IN FL WHILE WORKING FOR THE MILITARY--BUT 9/11 HAPPENED AND ALL XTRA PEOPLE NOT DOING THEIR INITIAL JOBS RETURNED TO NORMAL DUTY. I NO ENOUGH TO B SMART BUT NOT ENOUGH TO FIGHT AN EXPERIENCED LAWYER.
THAT IS THE BASIC HISTORY. BOTXXXXX XXXXXNE --WE CAN'T GO IN FRONT OF SAME JUDGE/LAWYER/HER MOTHER'S MONEY. WHAT IS GONNA HAPPEN IS IF THE EX FORCES THE 13 YEAR OLD TO MOVE--SHE WILL RUNAWAY. SHE MAY B 13 BUT IN A 15 YEAR OLD BODY WITH A 15 YEAR OLD MENTALLITY. EXTREMELY MATURE.
I AM WORRIED ABOUT HER SAFETY!!!
THE ABOVE IS JUST FOR INFO FOR U! CORDIALLY, DIANNE!
THANKU FOR YOUR PATIENCE. WE DID TRY THE LAST TIME TO HIRE AN ATTORNEY FROM ATLANTA GA INSIDE THAT CITY WHEN MY SON WAS STAYING THEIR TRYING TO FIGHT HER AND HER MOTHER. NO ATTORNEY--OUT OF THE FIVE HE CONTACTED--WOULD TAKE HIS CASE!! TOO RISKY-AND NO THE JUDFE'S/LAWYER'S REPUTATION!
WHAT IS GONNA HAPPEN-SORRY TO SAY--IS THE EX IS GONNA MOVE TO FL-MY GRANDDAUGHTER WILL REFUSE--END UP GOING WITH HER-AND RUNAWAY AS SOON AS SHE GETS THERE.
TRY TO COME BACK HERE WITH HER FATHER--AND THEN HE WILL GET ARRESTED FOR HARBOURING HIS DAUGHTER. THEN SHE WILL LEAVE AND NOT TELL ANYONE WHERE SHE IS AT!!
PISSY AND VERY DANGEROUS--AND THE MOTHER COULDN'T CARE LESS AS LONG AS SHE GETS HER MONEY!!!
FOR YOUR ASSISTANCE--THANKU--I NEED TO TALK TO MY SON!!
I AM SORRY TO SAY THIS IS A LOSING BATTLE.
AM I CORRECT IF HIS DAUGHTER RETURNS TO HIM AND HE HARBOURS HER FOR SAFETY--HE CAN GET ARRESTED?
thanku for your patience. I talked to my son last night--and he also indicated we can't afford to go down this path once again! I am already over $20,000 in debt trying to hire lawyers and get him out of jail and pay his child spt because the "B" is only focused on money not welfare of her 13 year old.
And btw--just for your info--my husband and i r retired military 25 years for me and 33 for him! We have had to travel all around the world and the U.S. Trying to use what is in the best interest of the child--when r own children have had to up and relocate several times--that is a losing battle! Plus the ex's mother is a wife of a retired military man as well and knows how to use that in her benefit. If her husband was alive--he would forbid it-but he died 8 years ago and she has plenty of money to do what she pleases.
We can't win this game--it's a losing battle-like in poker when u have no cards and no bluff and u just try to save your ass!
I guess we will just have to c what happens next and pray our granddaughter can stay safe and free from harm--on the streets!! Really pretty pathetic but when it comes to lawyers--again no disrespect--u need money to fight money!! We have no more!!!
The only thing we can do is wait--or get into our RV and go somewhere safe!!! Cordially, Dianne!
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