I'm Doug, and I'm very sorry to hear of the situation.
The notarized statement gives you little in the way of legal rights as regards XXXXX XXXXX
In order to obtain legally recognized custody of your grandchild you will need to petition the court to be appointed the Temporary Legal Guardian of your grandchild. Based on the fact that your daughter will presumably agree to this, and that you have been caring for your grandchild for some time now, it is likely that the court would grant your petition and order that you be the Temporary Legal Guardian until ordered otherwise by the court.
The natural father will have to be served with the petition, but even if he objected, it is unlikely that the court would simply grant him custody---especially in light of his drug use.
A local Family Law
attorney can assist you in this process. They will be able to get this done, on average, in 60 to 90 days from the time you first retain them until the final hearing on the matter. If you absolutely must try to do this yourself, while it is possible, it will involve a lot of legwork and research to accomplish. But here is a link to the Petition that may be used with this application:
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