It is a shame when someone abuses the legal system and uses a child as a pawn in their silly games like this. You do have recourse though. Your recourse here is first your boyfriend needs to sue your ex for malicious prosecution and abuse of process and seek damages from your ex. Second, if he has made false CPS complaints, this can be prosecuted as a criminal offense in NY and is a class A misdemeanor for filing false CPS reports. It is also grounds to sue him for harassment for filing false complaints and this would be separate from your custody litigation.
The good news is the courts do understand and see people filing these malicious abuse claims all of the time, so you need to raise the false complaints in the custody hearing and provide proof that all of the complaints were false and made unfounded. If he has admitted not giving your child proper medication, then he is not properly caring for the child and this is another ground for the court to deny him more custody time. Furthermore, if he is still on drugs, you need to subpoena his current medical records and get current proof to the court of his drug abuse, as the stale information is not acceptable, you have to present new information and you need to serve him with discovery to make him turn over the information or issue subpoenas to his doctors and the hospitals to get the information.
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