Answer to 1 is no. The latest consent order is unsupervised OK, so you have been acquiescing to someone's request for only 3 hours and only with grandparents. Consider not bending over so kindly.
Answer 3 - The ex wife has is badmouthing me for 17 months since i left the house. Do you have evidence of that? Or are you presuming that because the child(ren) are behaving like they do not wish to be with your or interact with you?
The ex is not communicating with me at all. OK, so I know she hasn't admitted to Parental Alienation. So you must review (or have your attorney do so): Can you tell me what evidence you plan on producing regarding PA. It is very important. The fact that the children don't want to see you IS evidence, but not conclusive (because they could then say it is for a different reason, something you did, for instance).
I only see her at a facilitator once a month. My 13 year old girl doesnt talk to me and told my family she hates her father. Things you need to address in any motion: Why does she think shy hates you? Tough time for a 13 year old.
My 10 year old sees me with my parents for 3 hours a week because she is comfortable with that.Things you need to address in any motion: Why would she NOT be comfortable with 3 nights/week, without the grandparents? This is the big question that needs to be answered. Most 10 year old girls WANT to be with dad.
But that is ending in 2 weeks. My parents will be out of the picture as it says in the consent order. What does the consent order say about the grandparents? I thought you said it was unsupervised visitation, but this sounds the opposite? These are things to review.
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