This is a very interesting case. Most of the time on the facts presented, I do not give this advice. But you situation is much different. The courts do like to not let children leave the locality of where they have grown up, due to ties to the area, and also that it is in the best interests of the child to stay there. The true test for both custody and allowing the move, is what is in the best interest of the child. You have made out a very compelling case for a change of custody, and to allow the move. If the child's life is as you have described, then with what you have set up, I do not know how it could not be in the best interest of the child to be with you. In fact I think it would be a wonderful change for the child, and it does appear to be in his best interest. I could see a judge being convinced if he wants to go, to allowing the change in custody and the move. You would need to file a petition in the court where the child and mother are, for a change in custody and to allow the move. Such a motion is based on a substantial change in circumstances since time of final order,r and I think the child's age, and the wonderful teaching environment would qualify for that, and would be more beneficial than with living with a stripper. Good luck, Steve