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Can a 13 year old,decide who she wants to live with in a custody case, her parents split after 14 years,but were never married,the father wants custody only because he knows my daughter is not coming back to hin.she can not aford a lawyer and he has one. The court day is july 5,2012, tomorrow. i am the grandmother and I am worried about mydaughter.
Optional Information: Country relating to Question: United States State (if USA): Louisiana Already Tried: I am the grandmother and i am in el paso,I can not be there in court but wantto know if there is anything i can tell her to help her.
Thanks for the chance to help. I am an attorney with over 12 years experience. Hopefully I can help you with your legal question.The child can not "choose"The law requires the judge to choose. But the child can express their opinion on the matter...and the cour will certainly consider the child's desires.But the court is going to decide custody on "what is best for the child"Not what mom wants, not what dad wants, not what the child wants (though if they are all the same that makes the choice easy for the judge).. The judge will decide based on what is best for the child.In this case, if dad has a lawyer, mom really should try and find a way to get one. If she can not, the dad will have an advantage. But if she can not get a lawyer to assist, she should focus on the child. Specifically what is best for the child. If she can show that custody with her is best for the child, the court will grant that
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