In regards to "Police Power" and walfare checks:
I completely agree with the compasion and need for such as this is a need to many family's. I also agree to the calling of an officer out to a home when the call is made in "Good Faith", however what is it when a call has been made by a person(s) whos wish is the uttmost importantance to remain anonymous, and to check the walfare of a mother
and her 2 kids based on gossip by a family members ill intent for revenge? (I can establish so much truth)
I am a very respected mother with a background of Cert. by the State of Colorado in childcare. Many parents have written beautiful thank you letters to myself and all that I have done for the good of their children with over 14 years exper.
My husband has a problem with telling his mother and father (4houses down the street) the truth and has used me in his lies to acheive attention by his parents (I will seek an emerg. restr. order tomorrow). However to inform you that my mother-in-law has called SSA in California on just me 10 years prior because my husband told her we had an argument in front of our daughter. She admitted to calling SSA that time and they explained that this was not cause for anything but would stop by to talk to me. I had a home daycare biss. and was beyond thought as to why she did not however want her husband to be talked with? Now it has happened again here in Colorado however with a walfare check as SSA here informs a person when a call is made and their is no cause to come out, however they inform a caller to ask their local Police dept. to come out on a walfare check.
Their are events that happened over the weekend with his family and on Monday April 3rd an officer was knocking at my door. In regards XXXXX XXXXX visit I have my 13 year old daughter as a witness to the officer and took my daughter in priv. and asked her if I took to much medication and was to out-of-it to care for her and her brother. Now my daughter thinks things that were never true about her mother. The officer also told my daughter that she has missed too much school and is failing the 8th grade. It was horrible! The officer also asked me to pull up my sleves on my shirt and show her if I had sores on my skin, because the call in person a neighbor she said told her I stay up all night on the computer and thought to be drug use. I do our own taxes and yes I stay up trying to complete this task before the 15th. The officer also said that my daughter walks to school everyday from the caller.
So many lies were told to the police to get them out here. My daughter walked to school maybe 3 times, and if it was truely a neighbor that called they would have seen Brooke getting into a car daily!
I got the CADS from that day and the CADS dont even match up from what the officer said and did to me and my children. I also called my daughters counsel office and they informed me that no one and not even a police inquir. could get info about Brooke and that my daughter was not failing the 8th grade but was exceeding with A's and B's!...
The CADS from that day was information that my husband told to his mother as he admitted this, but only because he was upset that I had kicked his Herion user sister out of our house when she was caught!
(so much more details)
Now with all that said I with witnesses confronted my mother in law on the callers information, however I did not let her know that I was reading from the CADS, I asked her "what makes you think I stay on the computer all night" etc.
My question is to a lawyer, "how can a person calling in be anonymous to law enforc. based on pure gossip from another person with ill intent? Anonymous is understandable if the person has seen first hand, I agree to this protection 100%, but my daughter now seeks medical attention for stomach issues and I am now going threw a divorce
as this walfare check was nothing but emotion damaged to my children and myself all because of wrongfull actions based on gossip! How can I stop this from happening to others as my kids have physical and emotional damage?