I have a 2 year old son. The father has visitation alt weekends and holidays. He calls/texts anytime there is a problem, w him being late. He always picks him up, sometimes others are in the car with him but he has never sent someone else. However the past weekend, June 2, 2012. The grandfather shows up (who i have only seen 3x, interacted w 2x) i thought james was in the car, so i let my son go in the car.. i look back hes not in the car. (things esc, so i take him back with me; will tell whole story upon asking). I got no text/call informing me he was sending someone else, i thought it was fishy that when i asked the grampa wouldn't call him to confirm he was to pick him up. I told the grampa to have James pick my son up because he wasn't allowed to. Later after the grampa leaves, i get several missed calls from the father, and a text threatening
to take me to court and telling me to give my son to the grampa. He also stated "it says, in plain english anyone who the kid knows can take him from my house. I really dont see how that is possible when 1) I don't know anyone my child knows on that side, 2) my child is 2, he knows barney so if someone came to my house dressed as barney says "james told me to pick him up" should i give him to him?, 3) I was given no prior texts/call about this change, 4) I don't even have contact information and I'm not even allowed to check on my son/call my son while he's with his father. I'm not even allowed to speak to his family... so if someone just drops by and decides they want to take my kid to Mexico, and when i ask James he says "i didn't tell anyone to pick him up" my kids just gone forever!!! smh, that just doesn't make sense.. . the result, The grampa never came back for him.The father has threatened to take me to court, can he take my child away from me or gain more physical custody of him? also, Is there anyway I can make sure that we can only be in agreement on who picks my son up, being the father only or if I agree. It cant be legal that he can send whoever he wants to get my kid from my house, not even that but sending whoever to my house without my permission.