I see.

Because of his age, your son's wishes to live with one parent or the other would be given more weight typically. So if he indicates a desire to live with his father, a court may grant that wish. So, there is a risk in filing for divorce, but it sounds as though you need to pursue that option, or at least a legal separation, for your own well-being.

You should also seek spousal support/alimony since your husband is the primary financial provider for the family. If you did obtain custody of your son, then the father would normally be ordered to pay child support as well.

There are women's resource centers in many areas that aid women in leaving abusive relationships and regaining their financial independence. I would look for a center in your area and take advantage of any assistance they can provide.

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