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If you owned the home before you got married, then it is likely yours almost completely.
As for the property in Kansas, if he owned it before you married, that is his alone (the money he gets for 10 years from it).
As for his social security payments, if you are entitled to support from him, then you may get a share of it but that would be the only way.
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